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The Adapted Child VS The Natural Child

The Adapted Child VS The Natural Child

In several recent articles, I have mentioned a psychological system called Transactional Analysis. This is the diagnostic system developed by Eric Berne, author of the once famous book Games People Play. The system is also discussed in Thomas Harris’s book I’M OK, YOU’RE OK and Born to WIN by Jones and Jongeward. What made Berne’s system so revolutionary was that it gave pe... »

The Mathematics of Your Birth Map: Keys to Human Destiny and Potential

The Mathematics of Your Birth Map: Keys to Human Destiny and Potential

    Well-being is a function of spending as much of your life as possible at your Perfect Balance Point. Every living creature naturally seeks its Perfect Balance Point. Eastern medicine is built on this simple principle. This is the place where we use the least amount of resources to sustain the highest level of vitality and vibration. This is the place where YOU are YOU, unencumbered b... »

THE BINARY MATH CODES OF “OKAYNESS”

THE BINARY MATH CODES OF “OKAYNESS”

In the late 1960s, a classic bestselling book, I’M OK-YOU’RE OK by psychiatrist Dr. Thomas Harris, hit the marketplace. Like many people seeking to feel OK about themselves, I ran out and bought the book, reading it cover to cover in a day. Dr. Harris’s work was revolutionary in the field of mental health because he helped readers to identify the internal position from which each... »

I Have Never Had a Bad Day

I Have Never Had a Bad Day

Someone recently asked me what I meant when I said that “I have never had a bad day.” I realized in my attempt to answer that this was a far more profound question than I might have imagined. I first heard these words in late 2006. They were spoken to me by a good friend just after the Maine Attorney General’s office had taken over our 23 year old non-profit company. We had just surrendered our li... »

What parents say to children

What parents say to children

Children are far more aware of what is going on around them than we often realize and can be super sensitive to the emotions of their parents.  Here, Mary Miller – Health Freedom Advocate, explains just how true this is….. What we say to our children often determines the quality and the outcome of their lives.  And, what we SAY to our children is far beyond the spoken word. Our behaviors, th... »

Success = Victim free living

Success = Victim free living

In a way, there is nothing better than being the biggest victim….nothing better if being a Victim was your way of surviving in your family. For some children, being a Victim is the best solution to not being able to get your basic and essential needs met. In any psychological game, the goal is to be the biggest Victim. The people most likely to get caught in a game are people who grew up in ... »

The psychodynamics of a bully

The psychodynamics of a bully

In recent decades, bullying has become a more serious problem in our schools and neighborhoods. I would like to talk to you about the psychodynamics of bullying. First I must say that I have been in mental health for more than 40 years. In fact, I graduated from Social Work School 40 years ago this June. I have had many opportunities to both observe and study human behavior including bullying. The... »

Our beautiful children: Never put an orchid in the freezer

Our beautiful children: Never put an orchid in the freezer

We bet the title of this blog post has caught your attention? It certainly caught ours. We’re bringing you a snippet of Mary Miller’s latest article below, which focuses on children and their wellbeing, and we’ll be treating you to the full piece very soon – just keep an eye on the website for more. Take it away, Mary… For many years, I have been involved in education... »

The perfect balance point

The perfect balance point

We live in an absolutely organized universe. Nothing here is random and everything, including us as human beings, seeks a perfect balance point. I could make the argument that stress is a function of the distance between our perfect balance point and how we live our lives.  In other words, stress is what happens when we do not or cannot respect our perfect balance points. There are two sources of ... »

Mary Millers Up and Coming Schedule

International author, speaker and educator Mary Miller is traveling across America and Canada bringing you exciting events to better your health, happiness and relationships. Mary has kindly provided us with a schedule of her upcoming events; to learn more and find out how to register see what Mary has to say below.   1. NOVEMBER 18, 2012 DESTINY: YOUR BIRTH MAP! Ramada Plaza Newark Airport 1... »

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